If there is a harpoon in your dream, or you spit in your dream the face of the opposite sex, then, in the intimate sense, you behave like a conqueror. Sex in your understanding is presented as a game that necessarily presupposes the presence of winners and losers. And, the latter obey the first, that is, in this case you, because you identify yourself with the one who wins. If you deal with a person who is similar to you and character and temperament, making love with him will not inspire, but on the contrary, will create a feeling of depression, boredom, gloomy mood. Therefore, your potential sexual partner should have a more accommodating nature, be timid and malleable, to resignedly obey you in bed.