This is a rather interesting symbol, typical for the subconscious of people prone to ksa domazohizmu. Let's try to understand why it appeared in your dream. If you dream that you are served by a lackey of the opposite sex and you are pleased to give him any orders with pleasure, then this dream is quite obvious that you are inclined to master-slave relationships, and you yourself consider yourself to be the master or mistress. You like it, whenever you want it, it's always done. The same applies to your intimate life. If, in a dream, the lackey does not want to carry out your orders, then this type of sleep indicates that it will be difficult for you in the near future to calculate a harmonious relationship with a partner. If you dream that the footman is you, but this role does not give you any pleasure, then you should be alert - in the near future there will be a situation where you will have to be not what you really are. Perhaps you will be mistaken for a representative of sexual minorities. If you saw yourself as a footman and liked you in a dream of serving someone of the opposite sex, then in your subconsciousness there was that education between a man and a woman, where you should obey and obey orders or requests of a loved one in everything. It's good, if in your dream the gentleman filled his role with pleasure. But if in a dream he tried to shift the initiative to you, and you hungered for power over yourself, in reality it will be difficult for you to find someone who would share your inclination to such relations, at least in the near future.

Failure.