If you dream of the rod, it shows that in real life, you vzaimojstvenno to engage in self-torture. You believe that in all the failures that occur in an intimate life, only you and no one else are to blame. This is the reason for your uncertainty and timidity in sex, and what's more, he does not give you such pleasure as before. If you witnessed someone being beaten with rods in a dream, or you did it yourself, it shows that in life you are very cruel to the one you love. Behind your cruelty lies wounded self-esteem and selfishness, as well as fear. Fear of being alone.