If you have a dumbbell, this indicates that you are actually taking on too many obligations, which you are not able to fulfill due to different reasons. However, this can be an occasion for conflict situations with people who surround you. In this regard, you are trying to compensate for this with sex. But still you can not establish yourself in this way, you fail, because the role of a giant of great sex is not up to you. And it is necessary only to be natural both in life situations and in sexual relations. And then everything will be all right.